Someday I'll find my own Rock Hudson

But hopefully he won't be gay.

Your result for Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz...

You Are a Doris!

You are a Doris -- "I must help others."

Dorises are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.


How to Get Along with Me

* * Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
* * Share fun times with me.
* * Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
* * Let me know that I am important and special to you.
* * Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.


In Intimate Relationships

* * Reassure me that I am interesting to you.
* * Reassure me often that you love me.
* * Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.


What I Like About Being a Doris

* * being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
* * knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
* * being generous, caring, and warm
* * being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
* * being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor


What's Hard About Being a Doris

* * not being able to say no
* * having low self-esteem
* * feeling drained from overdoing for others
* * not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
* * criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
* * being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them
* * working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings


Dorises as Children Often

* * are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
* * try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
* * are outwardly compliant
* * are popular or try to be popular with other children
* * act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
* * are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Dorises), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Dorises)


Dorises as Parents

* * are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
* * are often playful with their children
* * wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
* * can become fiercely protective

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